Domestic violence

Domestic Violence is a range of physical, sexual, emotional and financial abuse of people age 18 or over who are, or have been intimate partners - whether or not they have been married or cohabiting.

The relationship may be between partners, ex-partners, or other family members. Children can also suffer direct or indirect harm.

Domestic violence can take place in any intimate relationship, including gay and lesbian relationships. Abuse of men by female partners does occur, however the great majority of domestic violence and the most severe and chronic incidents are perpetrated by men against women and children

Recognising Domestic Violence

Everyone has arguments, and everyone disagrees with their partners, family members and others close to them from time to time. However, if this begins to form a consistent pattern, then it may be an indication of domestic violence.

Questions posed on the Survivor's Handbook on the Women's Aid website may help you decide whether your experiences are an indication of domestic violence.

Where to seek advice and support on Wirral

If you think that you are in an abusive relationship there are a number of statutory agencies who have a responsibility to support children and families. In addition to this in Wirral there is the Wirral Family Safety Unit which is a multi agency team that offers additional support and guidance for survivors who are age 18 years or over.

Wirral Family Safety Unit includes a team of Independent Domestic Violence Advocates. (IDVA). The Advocate is independent of police or children’s services.

• The IDVA is a service for you; their aim is to provide you with information about what your choices are. They will assess your risk and provide you with a support plan.
• If you feel you are in an abusive or dangerous relationship and want to end the relationship but do not know how or are concerned for your safety, the IDVA can help and advise.
• You may wish to leave or end the relationship but are concerned about how you will manage financially again the IDVA can give you that information.
• You may have concerns around housing e.g. the house tenancy may not be in your name and you need advice about this.
• You may wish to go to court for civil action e.g. to apply for a non-molestation order or an injunction to keep you safe, the IDVA will be able to assist you.
• You may have concerns about the impact your relationship is having on your children and feel they require support.
• You will be listened to. You will be believed. If the IDVA is unable to advise or support you, they will identify someone who can.

If you are pregnant or think that you might be, you can be additionally supported by a Midwife who is experienced in working with survivors of domestic abuse. They can support you with advice and guidance throughout your pregnancy. They can be contacted through the Family Safety Unit or direct at Arrowe Park Hospital on 0151 488 7782.

The Wirral Family Safety Unit can be contacted on 0151 606 5442. The office hours are Monday – Friday 0900 – 1700hrs.

Wirral Council is committed to offering the appropriate advice, information or support to anyone who is experiencing domestic abuse, however, in the event of an emergency situation, the Police should be contacted via 999.